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When To Adopt a New Pet After the Previous One Passed Away
Hello everyone, I am Luckypet! Today, I want to share with you an article about when to adopt a new pet after the passing of a previous one. Pets are not just pets; they are our family. Let's dive into today's story together.
It is difficult to know exactly when to adopt a new pet after the previous one passes away. Animals bring so much life and joy into our homes. Their companionship and their personalities help make them central members of our families. Once they join us, it’s difficult to imagine life without them. This is why it can be so difficult when the family pet passes away. It’s also why some of us make the mistake of rushing into adopting a new pet afterward. We’re trying to fill the immense void they’ve left behind.
When To Adopt a New Pet?
It should probably go without saying that you don’t want to jump headfirst into adopting a pet immediately after your last one has passed away. From a practical perspective, much of your time is likely on more pressing matters — closing down pet insurance, settling your account with your vet. If you’re planning a memorial, your attention is probably going to be split between asking questions such as “how can I find out where to buy an urn for my pet?” or “where is the most appropriate place to scatter the ashes?”. Introducing a new pet into your family requires and deserves your utmost attention and patience. Your new furry companion won’t have this attention if your mind is occupied elsewhere.
The days, weeks, and even months following the death of your pet are a time of grieving. Getting a new pet during this dark and upsetting period can be tempting, After all, you’re likely to crave that companionship. However, you shouldn’t feel as though you need to rush into making a decision on when to adopt a new pet — give yourself time to find the right new addition.
WHY SHOULD YOU WAIT?
You might not be entirely clear on why it’s not healthy for you, your family, or your potential adoptee. Essentially it comes down to the following factors:
Family Considerations. Everybody grieves at a different rate, and each of your family members must be allowed as much time as they need to move through their feelings of loss. You might think you are personally ready to adopt a pet, but your family may not be there yet. If you don’t wait until the rest of your family is ready, you run the risk of derailing their healing process. This can stoke resentment, and even give the impression that you’re prematurely “replacing” your last pet.
KNOWING WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT
The sad truth is that there’s no strict time frame to invite a new pet into your life after your last one has passed away. Be honest with yourself and seek to understand whether you have mental and emotional space to give to a new adoptee. Keep an open dialogue with your family, too. Have frank conversations with each other on how you each feel about when to adopt a new pet.
It can be a difficult decision to wait, particularly as we’re all aware of how much pressure shelters are under. However, you can certainly help out by directly donating or nominating a shelter for us to donate to. Volunteering your time can also be a great stepping stone toward adopting your own new furry family member. Think of it as testing the waters, while also doing some good.
We hope it highlights the importance of pets in our lives. While we can't stop our pets from leaving us, we can create meaningful mementos to remember them by, such as 3D hand-painted pet portraits , pet oil paintings , and custom pet-themed clothing . At Lucky , our mission is to provide heartfelt keepsakes for pet lovers. We encourage everyone to cherish and treat their pets well.
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